LETS' DO IT! ROMANTIC RELATIONSHIP.

 by Crispus Gichuki. Dating makes one to have a realistic know how or idea of the kind of person they are planning to attach themselves to. Through dating, one gets to know whether they fits in one life. It could also mean that it's a risk we take to giving out out hearts to considering whether the other person suits us. Therefore, it's very important to date before getting married. This reduces the shock in marriage.  Indubitably, if one fails to date, there are high chances of having challenges in marriage. That's when they have an in-depth know of the person which should be done in dating. It's thus important yo date because of the following reasons:- 1.Dating is a time to ponder a nd consider marriage. The aim of dating is to be a trajectory towards marriage. Marriage is authored by God and even dating should be of Godly standards. This help you to have a complete understanding of the person. It facilitate you to begin well and progress well. Some relationships begi...

by Crispus Gichuki Dating refers to the period in which two individuals (male and female) are assessing their suitability as partners to an intimate relationship. It involves exploring to check whether they are compatible enough. Exploring would imply working out to discover the other person's traits, weaknesses, strengths, vision among others. The 5 Stages of Dating .   1. Attraction Dating relationships start from a point. Attraction level is the initial stage of it all. Early attraction is attributed to outward appearance, personality traits and bold type. Differences may not be noticed and flaws are dismissed with "not a big deal", "it’s okay", "she will change" Every person who gets to dating has their story and it's very different and unique from other people's story. Let me give a short story about Kim and Angela.   Angela and Kim met on campus. Angela had been requested by Pauline to take her to the washroom. As Angela waited for Pauli...

  Ready to Have Expensive Choices? by Crispus Gichuki Have you ever found yourself stranded between two or more options? How did you choose the best option? Proverbs 18:22 He who finds a wife finds a good thing, and obtains favor from the LORD. ( NKJV) The concept of finding comes as a result of looking for ( searching) and critically examining to get the best. It involves checking on it's worthwhile, benefits and demerits. The choice that one take, makes a total difference in their life. This leads to implication that choices have consequences. Rush not while making serious decisions. While choosing a partner you will need time to earnestly pray and inspect carefully because it's a long term decision you are to make. Before choosing a partner, to get into the relationship with, you must be certain that you are ready. Readiness comes as a result of prior preparation. 4 Ways to Know you are Ready for a Relationship? 1. Count the Cost. Luke 14:28 "For which of you, intending...

        Paying The Cost of Love in a Relationship. by   Crispus Gichuki. Money certainly cannot buy it but love has a cost. Its neither commodity nor a good to be traded but very precious energy or vigor that cost our life force. Infinite love is clearly illustrated by Christ who appeared in the form of man, humbled Himself and became obedient to the point of death on the cross for the sake of humanity. God gave his Son Jesus Christ to come and redeem the world through shedding off his blood. The depicts of the splendid love for humanity by the Godhead. This the selfless love that should be cultivate in relationship. Just as Christ paid the cost for love of humanity by losing his life that we may have life, so do a relationship has to. Before getting to the relationship, you need to examine yourself if you are ready to pay the cost of it. No price is too high for the one we love. Bobby J Mattingly says "to love another fully and completely is to surrender your h...