Price Of Love. You Have To Pay !

      Paying The Cost of Love in a Relationship.

by Crispus Gichuki.

Money certainly cannot buy it but love has a cost. Its neither commodity nor a good to be traded but very precious energy or vigor that cost our life force.

Infinite love is clearly illustrated by Christ who appeared in the form of man, humbled Himself and became obedient to the point of death on the cross for the sake of humanity.

God gave his Son Jesus Christ to come and redeem the world through shedding off his blood. The depicts of the splendid love for humanity by the Godhead.

This the selfless love that should be cultivate in relationship.

Just as Christ paid the cost for love of humanity by losing his life that we may have life, so do a relationship has to. Before getting to the relationship, you need to examine yourself if you are ready to pay the cost of it.

No price is too high for the one we love. Bobby J Mattingly says "to love another fully and completely is to surrender your heart into their possession and trust that it is in good keeping."

Therefore, paying the cost would mean being ready to face challenges for the sake of the relationship. You need first to count the cost before getting to the relationship to know of it's worth.

4 Signs of Healthy Relationship Where the Price of Love is met.

• Commitment.

Commitment is an essential necessity for a long term relationship for it's the ingredient that holds together.

If two people are in love, they create time for one another, they have some vulnerability, they make sacrifices for each other, they are highly satisfied and take risk for one another. 

•Loyalty 

Loyalty is the test to true friendship. Having a thousand friends isn't a big deal but having one genuine friend is worth so much to keep.

In a relationship you need that one close and best friend who is selfless and fully committed to you. Loyalty is evident when your partner has empathy, is an active listener, says sorry when the make mistake, forgives and makes you a priority.

•Trust

In any relationship, trust is the building blocks. It is the faith and believe that one remains loyal and loving.

To have a healthy and working relationship you need to build trust. It helps you have confidence in your partner, help overcome obstacles and reassuring love.

Trust is exactly like a skyscraper which can be build using lots of resources, time and energy but it's falling down is in a wink. 

•Respect

How do you know your partner respects you? It's only if she or he talks openly and honestly, gives space to each other, build and support each other, honor each other's boundaries and value one another's need and interest.

Respect holds one another in high regards.

 

A friend who understand your tears is much more valuable than lots of friends who only knows your smile.