Is It Yes or No Into The Relationship. Check Out!

by Crispus Gichuki

Relationship is an independent connection between two people (male and female) who are in a close proximity with mutual benefit and agreed set of principles. 

Relationships do not make people happy, they are for the happy people.

 Types Of Romantic Relationship

•Co-dependent relationship

•Submissive relationship

•Open relationship

•Long distance relationship

•Toxic relationship

•Independent relationship

Evaluating your relationship to know of the category it lies is essential as it is the basic thing and helps understand its purpose .

What to check before getting into the relationship?

1. The little foxes 

Song of songs 2:15 "Catch us the foxes, the little foxes that spoil the vines, for our vines have tender grapes."

This refers to the small and minor traits that become evident to the person you intend to date.  They later come to be issues if not we'll addressed and ends up making the relationship toxic. 

2. Purpose 

Do you need a relationship that leads to marriage or is it just an entanglement or a situationship? Do you want to cultivate a healthy relationship or are cultivating for a break up? The purpose of the relationship should be clearly outlined.

3.Compatibility levels

You need to check compatibility in term of faith, personality and vision.How well can you cope with his or her traits. How well can you support his vision. Myles Munroe said that a woman should support the vision of the man and if she come with her vision, it leads to having di-vision which is the roots to divorce.

What does light have to do with darkness? This are two distinct thing just as people of different faith.

There are four personality temperaments:-sanguine, chorelic, melancholy and phlegmatic temperaments. Where do you lie and how well are you compatible?

4. Maturity

Maturity isn't to do with how old one is,one can be 30 years but immature while another may be 19 but very mature.Maturity therefore would means how responsible one is. Its a propagation of growing up. Therefore, you need to check on his or her cognitive, emotional, social, financial, spiritual and psychological maturity.

If you don't want to make it toxic,check the 4 things.

Let The Lord be the Umpire to lead you to a happy relationship. Rush not but take time to weigh and unconceal.