What's All About Love. Let's Explore!

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by Crispus Gichuki
Love is a cultivation of an inward feeling between two persons that grows with time. It begins from knowing each other and progresses into deeply sharing personal experiences. 

Love grows and surely teaches immensely. It moulds one to be a better person. It helps to shape, sharpen and adjust our personal traits. The essence of being transformed is to be fully compatible.

Love entails absolute commitment. A relationship without commitment is a Casual Relationship and easily breeds insecurity and jealousy. Commitment on the other hand helps to be secure, patient, kind and caring. It keeps us to late night and wakes us very early.

Love involves some levels of intimacy. Intimacy refers to emotional closeness in the two persons. The four levels of intimacy are spiritual intimacy, emotional intimacy, intellectual intimacy and physical intimacy. The loss of intimacy leads to the termination of the relationship.

Love builds up trust and fidelity. It's likely to trust the one you love. Being fidel involves being faithful to your partner. When one fails to be faithful, leads to weakening and shivering of the relationship and the high chance of breaking up.
Breakups on the other hand are never the best things to get yourself into. Indeed they are very painful

All in all, God is the author of love and He is Love. Aspire His ways to know what loves fully entails.



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